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Ekya / November 25, 2021 Posted by : administrator

“Am I a child or an adult? One pace ahead of childhood, two paces behind Adulthood.”

I am sure this question pops up in every teenager’s mind. Often when they cannot do a task and are immediately hauled up by parents and teachers, “You are so grown up, and yet don’t you know this?” However, when they accomplish any feat, they are termed as ‘child prodigies.’

Teenagers today face innumerable challenges and distractions around them. Caught between the real and the reel world – Most of them use these media forms to draw attention to themselves – they thrive on the adulation/ sympathies soaking in all the attention they get. These are often in likes, shares, and reposts they receive when they update their stories or upload their pictures on socials like Instagram, Snapchat, or Facebook. Every little happening from their personal life to their school /social life becomes a sensation- often worth posting – just to avail the validation from a couple of strangers – This is termed as “ATTENTION  SEEKING SYNDROME.

Now, how does this begin? Let’s look at Reema and Rakesh, parents to an adolescent. Reema works in a prestigious school while Rakesh is a manager in a bank. They have everything they need – a luxurious bungalow, the latest gadgets, help with all the chores, and of course, the most expensive car to travel in.  As they finished the day’s routine and were winding up for the night – Rakesh was busy watching the news while Reema was going through a  questionnaire she had given her students. Suddenly she gasps and sobs. Her husband enquired what had happened. She reads out the answer from the questionnaire “My parents have given me everything one could ever ask for -When  I return from school, they make sweet talk, ask about my life, and then immediately engross in their mobiles. I honestly wish they would spend time with me – tell me stories, play with me, understand that I feel lonely”. Rakesh suggests that  Reema should have a conversation with the parents regarding the same. The students’ answer stunned the father when she said it was their own child who had written it.

This is but one example which ends up being an excuse for adolescents to search for alternative sources that will satisfy their urge to be appreciated, sympathized, and supported. They turn to the most accessible source – social media. Social media often plays a significant role in connecting an individual to various people. In these groups, you make any number of friends while also gaining sympathy, empathy, attention, adoration, validation, and feeling accepted – this keeps them hooked. Social media ends up being a compass on which one bases his/her/their life – resulting in drastic changes. Parents tend to ignore the behavioral modifications and proudly stand to claim how their child is tech-savvy.

Adolescence is a stage when hormonal changes are at their full pace. One’s family needs to be supportive, attentive & alert to the emotional needs of their kids. Lack of this leads teenagers to scourge social networking sites for the same. They create fake accounts, exposing their details, which often leads to a state of misuse – in turn leading to a loop of anxiety, depression, and even suicide.

The need of the hour is to adapt and adopt techniques that will keep them busy and develop their personality.  INVOLVE- in family, community, and society-based jobs. Taking an early neighbor to the bank/hospital or market.  Conduct basic tech classes for your family and community adults who need to learn new systems. INCULCATE values through your example, making their breakfast, washing the dishes irrespective of gender, visiting the elderly old grandparents, and listening to them may mean giving up on their screen time. INSPIRE- through their mistakes, disappointments,  defeats, loss – A setback is typical; however, getting up to face the challenge is real!

These teenagers must never be treated as a child, for that is a stage of life that they have surpassed. It is better to treat them as if they had greater value than they actually show than if they had less and let them feel that their merits and self-respect are disregarded.  But, above all, it is the education of adolescents that is important because it is then the child enters adulthood.

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Ekya / April 03, 2024

The Power of Learning with Intent: A Guide to Purposeful Education

In a world brimming with information, the art of learning has evolved beyond the mere acquisition of facts. Learning with intent, a deliberate approach to education emphasises quality over quantity, depth over breadth, and purpose over passive absorption. It’s about cultivating a mindset that transforms knowledge into meaningful action and empowers individuals to navigate the complexities of the modern age effectively.

At its core, learning with intent involves setting clear objectives and actively engaging with the subject matter. Whether exploring a new language, delving into scientific principles, or honing a creative skill, intentionality infuses each learning endeavour with purpose and direction. As Albert Einstein aptly said, "The only source of knowledge is experience." This quote amplifies the importance of active participation and hands-on learning, highlighting that true understanding arises from deliberate engagement with the material.

Furthermore, engaging actively with the material is paramount. Embrace challenges and embrace mistakes as opportunities for growth. This proactive approach not only deepens your understanding but also cultivates critical thinking and problem-solving skills essential for success in any field.

Moreover, learning with intent emphasises relevance and applicability. Seek out opportunities to apply newfound knowledge in real-world scenarios, bridging the gap between theory and practice. By contextualising learning within your personal or professional sphere, you enhance its significance and utility, making it more likely to stick.

In conclusion, learning with intent is a transformative approach that transcends traditional notions of education. By setting clear objectives, engaging actively, prioritising relevance, and fostering a growth mindset, individuals can harness the full potential of learning to achieve their goals and thrive in an ever-changing world. So, embark on your learning journey with purpose, and let each lesson propel you towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.

By Sweta Pradeep Rao

Senior English Educator

Ekya School JP Nagar

Ekya / April 02, 2024

Gadget-free Summer Break

With summer vacation around, I urge parents to explore various ways to facilitate children to make healthy choices during their vacation time.

Last week, when we asked our Early Years to visualise their characters and create a story, most of them came up with stories about ghosts and monsters attacking others.  When we had conversations about what gave them this idea, we understood that these story ideas emanated from their online games. While gaming per se develops specific skills and requires focus, it also stifles the imagination of young children. Since it is visually appealing, children tend to remember those images in their heads all the time.

I often see parents providing very young children (1 year to 3 year olds)  with gadgets as the means to keep children engaged and entertained. I see children watching phones in the waiting areas of clinics, hospitals, school lobbies and banks.

This brings us to a fundamental question “ Should children be engaged by parents all the time?” Not necessarily. What is likely to happen if children were not handed over gadgets at the waiting lounges? What would they do? Some of them may cry, some may throw a loud tantrum, and some may crib. If parents show resilience and allow children to settle down themselves, they will soon find ways to keep themselves engaged. Likewise, during summer vacation. What if this is a “no gadget” vacation and parents do not take up the responsibility to engage their children? What would children do? How can parents show resilience here and facilitate children to make healthy choices? I leave the readers with this thought for this summer vacation.

Mathangi R,

Head of School,

Ekya NICE Road.

Ekya / April 02, 2024

The Eye of the Storm

In the hushed embrace of an Indian evening, our journey began, a symphony of anticipation orchestrated by the hum of jet engines and the flutter of boarding passes. The promise of adventure beckoned from distant shores as we boarded our flight bound for the United Kingdom, our hearts aflutter with dreams of far-off lands and newfound horizons. But as we soared through the velvet sky, a foreboding shadow loomed on the horizon, a harbinger of the chaos that was soon to unfold. In the blink of an eye, the tranquil serenity of our airborne sanctuary was shattered by a deafening crack, a burst of purple lightning that danced across the heavens with an otherworldly fervour. The air crackled with electricity as the plane shuddered beneath the force of the storm, its metal frame quivering in defiance against the tempestuous onslaught. And then, in a heart-stopping moment of sheer terror, the heavens unleashed their fury upon us, casting our fragile vessel into a maelstrom of chaos and uncertainty. The sky darkened to a shade of ominous charcoal as the winds howled with a primal ferocity, tearing at the wings of our faltering craft with savage intent. The cabin was awash with panicked cries and frantic prayers as we clung to our seats with white-knuckled desperation, each passing moment stretching into eternity.

And then, as if mocking our feeble attempts at control, the plane tilted almost 180 degrees, its nose plummeting towards the earth with a sickening lurch. Time seemed to stand still as we hurtled towards the ground, our fate hanging in the balance as the world spun wildly out of control. But just when all hope seemed lost, a glimmer of salvation emerged from the chaos, a beacon of light amidst the encroaching darkness. With a mighty roar, the engines surged to life once more, their thunderous symphony drowning out the cacophony of the storm as we clawed our way back from the brink of oblivion. As the storm clouds parted and the sun cast its golden rays upon the horizon, we emerged battered but unbroken, our spirits buoyed by the triumph of the human spirit in the face of adversity. And though our journey had been fraught with peril and uncertainty, we emerged from the crucible of the skies stronger and more resilient than ever before. For in the crucible of adversity, we discovered the true measure of our strength, our courage, and our unwavering determination to defy the odds and chart our course through the tempestuous seas of life. As we touched down on solid ground once more, I couldn't help but marvel at the beauty of the world around us, a testament to the indomitable spirit of the human soul.

Arjun Narasimhan Kuppuswamy

Grade 8C

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#CounsellorBlog: Gender Sensitization & Personal Safety By, Anushree C N Counsellor

It is very important to know and keep ourselves safe in this world to lead a happy life. Keeping that as our central theme we conducted multiple sessions for all age groups on knowing themselves and others better and also on how they can keep themselves alert and aware.

For Juniors, we discussed more body awareness. We spoke about safe feelings, touch, and strangers. We also spoke about hygiene and 3 personal safety rules. We grew their awareness about who is a safe adult. The children of this group are a delight to have discussions with. They participated with so much enthusiasm.

For Tweens, we spoke more about their growing up needs and how they can be aware of personal space, consent and boundaries for themselves and others. We also discussed how this is helpful to them in making and maintaining good relationships with all. The feedback from children showed that they found this topic relevant and could relate to the scenarios that we discussed.

For the Teens (depending on age group/ age-appropriate) we introduced them to Gender and expression. We gave them an awareness of Gender being a spectrum. We also reiterated the importance of Personal space and consent for any successful relationship. It was received well by students and they participated actively to make our sessions a success.

We sincerely hope that we were able to leave a long-lasting impression on the minds of our students to ensure they take good care of themselves physically and emotionally.

#StudentBlogger: Online School And How To Get Through It By, Siya Heda Grade 11C, Ekya ITPL

More than a year into the pandemic, online schooling has become the new normal for education. However, the entire last year felt like a temporary thing - and we were all thinking about how we’d be back in offline school with a year. Well, since we’re all slowly coming back to offline classes and adapting to the new normal, here are some of the things I’ve learned along the way, which have helped me adapt easily and can hopefully help you too!

Monitor your screen time :

Having a long exposure to the screen is inevitable, with education, socializing, and downtime - all done online, but it comes with several repercussions. So, taking a 5-10 minute break every 1-2 hours is something we should all follow. Utilizing the breaks in between classes to get something done, like cleaning up your room or drawing, or reading a chapter of the book you’re currently reading is also a simple way to give your eyes some rest.

Focusing during class : 

Studying during online classes is not an easy feat to achieve. With distractions through the internet right at your fingertips, focusing during class is understandably hard. To help with focusing, log out of your chatting accounts on the device you’re taking classes on. Try not to switch tabs during class and keep your phone away to reduce notifications

Self-studying :

Study without the internet. Use physical copies of books or download PDFs of the books you’re using online so that you can disconnect from your wifi and only focus on the topic you are currently doing. Also, don’t type your answers, write them.

Take notes :

Taking running notes is an easy way to maintain focus, and remember concepts. It’s alright if your notes are messy during class, just note down what you think is necessary, and later categorize and make it neater. Writing what you learn in your own words makes it far easier to understand, and it helps in cementing the topic. Look up different ways to write notes, such as the Cornell or sentence methods, and follow what suits you the best.

Downtime :

Since everything is still partially online, the need for fresh air and no screens has been at an all-time high. Make sure to take at least a 15-minute walk outside your home, or spend some time with friends (while remaining safe). The fresh air and lack of internet will not only revitalise you, but it will also help you clear your mind so you can work on your tasks effectively.

Implementing these simple things in your daily routine will make a huge difference, and is sure to help make online schooling a little bit easier, if not a lot more.

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